A Nervous System Reset for Real Change

Person sitting in soft natural light holding a warm mug, representing nervous system regulation and gentle reset for ADHD after the holidays.

This morning, I read about a lesser-known tradition celebrated on January 6th in Ireland, a rest day for women that offered a brief respite after the mental load of the holidays. A quiet acknowledgment that care was needed after all the doing. In today’s fast-paced world, there’s rarely space for that kind of pause. We’re…

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The Soft Start: Why Tiny Habits Work Best for ADHD Brains

A calm, cozy moment symbolizing a gentle start to new tiny habits

The day after Christmas Day, which, as a family of Brits living in Seattle, we still celebrate as Boxing Day, always brings me a sense of relief. Especially when my girls were younger, I would wake up feeling relaxed for the first time in weeks. Ahhh. And then New Year’s looms. Suddenly, there’s an expectation…

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The Gentle Reset: ADHD-Friendly Habits That Actually Stick

A calm, cozy scene with a warm drink and notebook, representing a gentle start to habit change

A 4-week, ADHD-friendly habit series that helps you start small, regulate your nervous system, and build momentum, without burnout. If the end of the year has left you feeling tired, overstimulated, or quietly relieved it’s over, you’re not alone. The holidays can stretch our nervous systems thin, and January often brings pressure to do more and change quickly.…

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You Don’t Need Momentum – You Need a Pause

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There’s a lot of noise this time of year about getting ready to start again, about making big changes in the new year. But it can be hard to switch from the holiday season, and the stress that often comes with it, straight into pushing for change. Especially if you’re feeling tired, foggy, or simply…

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Simple Shared Rituals: Creating Meaning, Not Mayhem

Parent and child practicing a calming bedtime ritual to create connection and reduce holiday overwhelm.

As parents, we often set the bar very high for how we want the holidays (and, let’s face it, anything else during the year) to be perfect.  I remember when my girls were young, the elf on the shelf was the thing to do, and I had a friend who posted her family elf’s elaborate…

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From Chaos to Calm: Reducing Holiday Overwhelm for Parents

Calming ritual setup with tea and journaling to support mindful parenting during December.

Early December often feels like a whirlwind — shorter days, darker evenings, and the constant push to “make the season magical.” When daylight fades before dinner, many parents notice their patience and energy drop faster than usual. The holidays can feel like… a lot. The good news? You don’t have to white-knuckle your way through…

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The Power of Pause: Why Slowing Down Matters More Than Ever

Mindful pause with tea and journal to start the day calmly

As the holidays approach, the world speeds up, calendars fill, lists grow longer, and your nervous system races to keep up. If you live with ADHD, that pace can feel like too much: constant motion, constant noise, constant pressure to do it all. But here’s the truth: you can’t be present when you’re always in…

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